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Place of Women
in the Hindu Society
Dr. Upinder Jit Kaur,
Professor of Economics,
Punjabi University, Patiala, INDIA
courtesy: Gateway to Sikhism
September 5, 2001
In India, woman was reduced to the
status of slave ever since the establishment of Brahman's dominance and
enforcement of Manu's code.
It is true that during the Vedic period, women commanded respect, and no
religious or social work was considered to be completer without the active
support of one's wife. Women had the right to education and knowledge.
Boys and girls used to get their education together. Even among the authors of
the Vedas, there were said to be twenty-two women. Women like Gargi and
Maitreyi were revered as seers.
But Manusmriti, the Veda of the Brahmanical revival, laid down the fundamental
and outrageous doctrine of woman's perpetual subjection.
Says Manu, "In childhood, a female must be subject to her father; in youth to
her husband; when her lord is dead, to her son : a woman must never be
independent"? The position of women in Hindu society was governed by rules and
regulations laid down by Manu. And it seems that there was a deliberate
attempt in the dharam shastra of Manu to lower the rank of women.
A woman was considered inferior to man in all respects. The natural
affectionate relationship between husband and wife was marred by the degraded
and inferior position in which woman was placed.
A woman was required to worship her husband as God whatever his failings.
According to Manu, "Though destitute of virtue or seeking pleasure
(elsewhere), or devoid of good qualities (yet) a husband must be constantly
worshipped as a God by a faithful wife."
She was not to grumble or show any disrespect in any manner. On the other
hand, the husband was fully empowered to take action against the erring wife.
"She who shows disrespect to (a husband) who is addicted to (some evil)
passion, is a drunkard, or diseased, shall be deserted for three months (and
be) deprived of her ornaments and the furniture.......She who drinks
spirituous liquor, is of bad conduct, rebellious, diseased, mischievous or
wasteful, may at any time be superseded".
The husband was authorised to supersede his wife even on much less serious
grounds. "A barren wife may be superseded in the eighth year, she whose
children (all) die in the tenth, she who bears only daughters in the eleventh,
but she who is quarrelsome without delay".10 The poor wife was made to bear
all the insults and humiliations and degradation with stoic calmness. If she
made any protest, she was beaten with a rope or a split bamboo and humiliated.
She had no rights. She was no match to her husband. Commenting on the sad
plight of women, R.C. Majumdar says, "The poor wife was expected to follow her
husband even in death by burning herself alive, but the husband, "having given
sacred fires to his wife who dies before him, may marry again, and again
kindle the fires".
Strangest of all, women who once even composed Vedic hymns, were not allowed
to study the Vedas and perform sacrificial rites."11 Women were thus condemned
to a life of permanent degradation and misery. They were required to observe
strict purdah and confined to the four walls of the house. Their mobility was
constrained. They were denied access to education and got caught in the
whirlpool of ignorance.
A woman had no identity of her own. Marriage became her only career and goal
in life. Child-marriages came to be practised. They became the rule rather
than the exception because it was considered obligatory for parents to marry
off their daughters before they attained the age of puberty. In the case of
husband's death a woman could not marry as widow remarriage was strictly
prohibited by Manu. So child-widows became a familiar phenomenon who had to go
through a hell of life and bear various atrocities.
In the case of married women barrenness was considered sinful. The birth of a
son was the most desired thing. It led to frequent pregnancies and poor health
of women. The birth of a female child was a sign of misfortune. So female
infanticide came to be practised.
A female child was not even entitled to the basic human right to live in the
world. Similarly, a woman had no right to live after the death of her husband.
So sati-widow cremation was practised. It was only the birth of a male child
that improved the position of a woman in her family and society. The
iniquitous barrier which the Hindu society had raised between man and woman
drained the strength and liveliness of social and domestic life. The stifling
environment obstructed development of a woman's mental and intellectuals
faculties, shortened her life, and in turn sapped the strength and vitality of
domestic and national life.
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